Difference between CAN'T and CAN

It's actually the letter 't' that sets off "can" from "can't" and, take it out from your vocabulary is my advice to my kid so many times. Whenever she feels something is achievable but with difficulty, she says, "amma I can't" and I simply hate to hear that from her. I say "there is nothing like can't and if you try you can.

I also like to interpret it this way! Maybe the 't' that sets off the two opposite terms is only try and if you try can't can become can. Ain't it?

So said, I was so let down for lack of jobs for the last week. I did try to get some jobs but with failure. It was then that I almost felt like giving up freelancing forever. Should I or should I not have been the two things that went in my mind. My best friend reminded me of what she always used to!

My dear ....
you are wiser than you believe...
stronger than you really know...
more than you really give yourself credit for...
more beautiful than you have been told...
just capable of anything ...whatever you dream of!!
Believe in you... and trust in thy GOD and rest assured you are there where your dreams can take YOU!

I just thought it's a lovely note that she has sent to me to alert me. It hit me where it should really, and I made up my mind and thought I will try to tide over all those hurdles that come across the path of a freelancer. Come what may, I will challenge the difficulties that may come in my way of realizing dreams. And, isn't life boring without challenges? So, let there be some and let me do some reinvention of me!

Tell you what? To 'dream big' has become a passe, and the young generation started dreaming bigger! Probably we can take a gut or two from them to dream at least big. Thanks to my two friends who keep alerting me!

And, lastly it would be meaningless if I ask sravi to TRY when I simply fail to!